YoungLives Handbook - Flipbook - Page 68
Here is a list of places to be seen by Young Dads:
Meeting them through YoungLives, school programs, school counselors, and school coaches'
referrals.
Local organizations with relationships with young parenting fathers (e.g., Squires, Caring
Pregnancy Center).
Local pregnancy centers.
Local foundations (tribal, secular, community-based).
Local family community events.
LyfePact for YoungLives Dads.
One-on-one sessions over a meal, coffee, or social outing.
Host dad activities, such as:
Basketball
Video game night
Dads and kids at the park
Music studio for dads
Dad's night out (e.g., bowling)
Dad's cookout
Weekend camp, day camping
Many community leaders and program administrators are receptive to the idea of having
volunteers provide targeted support to young dads. Effective methods for making these initial
contacts in schools or other community organizations can include hosting informational sessions,
workshops on fatherhood, and life skills classes tailored to YoungLives Dads needs.
Initiating Conversation
How to Initiate Conversation with Young Fathers
Warm Greeting:
Start with a friendly and welcoming
greeting.
Use positive body language and
maintain eye contact.
Find Common Ground:
Ask about their interests or hobbies.
Share your own interests to create a
connection.
Show Genuine Interest:
Ask open-ended questions about their
Lives and experiences.
Listen actively and show empathy.
Be Respectful and Non-Judgmental:
Respect their perspectives and
experiences.
Avoid making assumptions or passing
judgment.
Share Personal Stories:
Share relatable personal experiences.
Use stories to create a sense of
camaraderie.
Encourage Openness:
Create a safe space for them to share
their thoughts and feelings.
Reassure
them
that
their
conversations are confidential.
Offer Support:
Ask how you can support them in
their journey.
Provide resources or suggestions if
needed.
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